I really need to learn to stop arguing on the internet. It’s such a time suck. My friends last night were laughing at my troll-bait tendencies.  But as Harry replied to my post and, I think, both misunderstood its purpose and misrepresented my position, there are a couple of things I really want to clarify before shutting up and doing real work. Most importantly: gender is not a binary. I keep saying this, but it keeps getting missed or misunderstood.  Harry says: “Erin, all or part of your cleavage has been visible in every profile pic I’ve seen of you. [...]